I used to be in the festival business. This is the MOST expensive thing I did.I kept doing the work I was best at.The best producer in the building? That was me (or at least that's what I liked to believe myself). So, naturally, I wouldn't let any-single-one near my work.We had no time. I was the fastest at this, so better to just do it myself, right?!I felt like I was the only one with responsibility. The only one reaaally running the show.Looking back now, I realize I was hiding behind that fe ...

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I was running a session two weeks ago. 12 entrepreneurs in the room, working out what's holding founders back.One of them said this:"Most of my time goes to getting involved in the problems of others."And then: "But I WANT TO BE involved."The logic feels sound. Let me solve the bigger issues, I'm better trained for them.The bigger issues cost more money, so taking the risk herself feels like protecting her team.That right there, that's the issue. She IS best trained for that decision. Noted.Why? ...

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"What do you mean you can't drink at my wedding?"The questions came in immediately."But it's a special occasion.""You'll ruin the dinner.""You've been doing this for years, what are you even proving?"I get the look. The slight tilt of the head. The "are you doing this AGAIN" face.And they're not entirely wrong. It is a weird choice. It does break the rhythm of the room. That's part of the deal.Here's the part nobody says out loud: doing hard things looks selfish. You're stepping out. Making the ...

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